Are you a man who cares not what the world thinks of him but cares for his own purpose and integrity?  A man is something we should all try to be, not to prove to others, but do it of your own will. We learn to be strong, for ourselves and for the people around us..We are all brothers and sisters to some point, and should treat each other with love and respect, even if we don't like someone completely...We should learn to let go of our egos, prides, prejudices, and selfish thoughts. Work together as one race, humanity. Regardless of individual beliefs, we are all still living, breathing beings. 

  We all have a common enemy, and that enemy goes by many names. Evil, lies, greed, darkness, negative, suffering, Satan, and pain. But I love my enemy just as much as I love anything else. You know why? Because without that enemy, I would never understand light, and truth. Without negative, how can I understand positive? Whether God exist or not, we all know that we still have good to believe in. God is just a name people gave to it. Religions themselves are just graven images of the good that we should believe in. I believe in truth, light, and goodness. That is what I consider God, not a man who sits on his throne and smites people and sends them to hell to burn forever. Forever, sounds like a long time. Do I deserve to burn forever without a chance of ever making it out? We all make mistakes..but to some point, we just don't know better. Even Hitler, he knew he was doing bad, but he didn't have a reason not to do bad. He didn't know anything better than trying to eliminate a entire race..He was wrong, we all know that. But HE didn't know that he was wrong.

Decide what is most important in your own life and do what you need to do. Make wise decisions and don't be afraid to fail. failure is key :) and in order to do what you want to do, you must do what you think you cannot do. Eliminate self-doubt from your head. Deep down, even the worst person knows there is something he must do, good or bad. Either way, we all work for a greater good. whether we know it or not..The evil is just there to boost us. I guess the only answer we need, is that in the end, Good always triumphs over evil.

To be a good man, you must have integrity. That means doing what you know is right. But you must not do it just because it's expected of you, but do it according to you own will. Be your own man. Work hard to feel pain, turn the pain into your fuel. Learn to focus and meditate on your own energy and strength.